half a day spent with the family....very lengthy advisory session. i realised in the evening that iam doing too much. i shud defintly stop advicing my family members. they may feel boring. they are not expressing it. but oflate they may hate me coming home. i cant change anyone and they will never change. what i can do is try to find some ways to accept their way of life. that doesnt mean that i should change...atleast with them, i shud accept them as they are..what i want them to understand is i want them to be happy always.. all the suffereing has to end. if at this age i have the liberty or the option to live happily/peacefully, they have never been given that opptny. i want them to live peacefuly for the rest of their life. if they realise this, i think all these problems will come to an end. i can onyl pray to god that they shoud realise this and cooperate with me to create a comfort zone for them.